Engagement Sessions!
Choosing the right time , perfect location & more
Choosing the right time , perfect location & more
WELCOME !
I’m so thrilled to be working with you, and I can’t wait for the fun we’ll have during your engagement session! Feeling a little nervous? That’s totally normal! Honestly, I still get butterflies before having my own photos taken—and this is what I do for a living!
Engagement sessions are one of my absolute favorite things, and here’s why: they’re the perfect way to get comfy in front of the camera. It’s all about taking the time to ease into the experience and learning how I guide you through posing. Wedding days can get super busy, and sometimes we only have about 30 minutes for portraits. That’s why having an engagement session beforehand is such a game-changer—it makes your wedding day photos even more magical!
Second, engagement sessions are a wonderful way to highlight your personalities in a location that holds special meaning for you both. These photos are perfect for save-the-dates, and I’ve captured them anywhere from 18 months before the wedding to just a few days prior!
A personal note
Yes I know your nervous about posing , looking good. Let me worry about the posing and trust your going to look great so don’t stress just enjoy the moment and just enjoy the session.
for the guys!
I totally get it—spending an hour in front of a camera might not make your list of top 10 favorite ways to spend your free time. At first, you might feel a bit awkward, but trust me, by the end of the session, it’ll feel much easier than you expected—and you might even have some fun! I really look forward to these sessions because they’re a chance for us to hang out and get to know each other before the wedding day.
Locations
I absolutely love when couples pick a session location that reflects the vibe of their wedding. For an elegant wedding, a luxury hotel could be the perfect backdrop for your portraits. Planning something rustic? A local park or a flower-filled field might be more your style. The best locations are often places that hold special meaning for you as a couple, but I’m more than happy to help with suggestions. From ski slopes to lavender fields, deserts to college campuses, the possibilities are endless!
We’ve also grouped our location ideas into three exciting categories: epic destinations, fun activities, and avant-garde concepts. If you’d like a curated list of ideas, just let us know!
Posing
When it comes to posing during your engagement session, there’s no need to stress! I’ll guide you every step of the way, starting with simple, natural poses that feel easy and relaxed. If I suggest something that seems a little silly, it’s likely because I know it will make you both laugh—and those candid moments are often the ones that create the best photos! Throughout the session, I’ll also keep an eye on your hair, makeup, and outfits to ensure everything looks perfect. My goal is to make sure you’re as comfortable as possible and genuinely enjoy this special time together.
Outfits
When selecting outfits, focus on coordinating rather than matching. For instance, if your fiancé is wearing a pastel blue and pink plaid shirt, a flowing, soft blue dress would pair beautifully. Choosing a color palette, like pastels or jewel tones, can also tie your looks together effortlessly. Most couples opt for two outfits during their session: one formal and one casual. I suggest saving your favorite outfit for the latter half of the session, once you’re feeling relaxed and confident in front of the camera. Don’t forget to bring a few accessories to enhance your look! Statement necklaces, fresh flowers, stylish shoes, and classic watches can add those perfect finishing touches.
Destination Engagement Sessions
If you have a special location in mind that holds meaning for the two of you, let me know! If our schedules align, we might be able to plan your engagement session outside my usual area. Destination engagement shoots are always exciting and result in stunning, epic portraits.
Please note that travel fees may apply depending on the location and my availability.
When is a "good" moment to shoot pictures?
TIME & LIGHT
Engagement sessions can take place anytime—from right after your proposal to just a few days before your wedding. There’s no “perfect” time to take your photos; it all depends on the look or vibe you have in mind! For example, if you’re dreaming of a backdrop filled with spring flowers, we’ll plan accordingly. Sessions usually last about an hour and a half, and I love to start about two hours before sunset when the light is soft and flattering. Shooting during this golden hour ensures beautiful, natural photos without harsh shadows or bright spots. Because lighting is so important, being on time is essential. If you’re late to an evening session, we risk losing the best light or may need to move to an indoor location.
Thank you!
I hope this guide answers all your questions and helps you feel fully prepared for your engagement session! If there’s anything I didn’t cover or if you’d like a recommendation, feel free to reach out via email. I’m here to help!
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I can't wait to meet you ! and create magical pictures!